This is a quote by Pharrell Williams, not a song lyric but from an interview. Mrs Russell chose this to be the penultimate lesson in Project L. I presume because she feels she experienced it first hand; I would not be so presumptions to assume from me.
This is about looking deeper into a person, discovering the real them and cutting through the bullshit charade we all put on to play our specific roles in society and life.
I think the same can be said for niche groups too. People with passions in the same area yet are from distinctly different geographic, socio-economic, age, gender ethnic and cultural backgrounds. How else can you explain music? Fans of a certain band or musical genre may have nothing more in common with each other than they are fans of that music.
On an interpersonal level ‘kissing her mind’ is nothing greater than showing utmost respect and listening without judging. Why are these two completely passive non-activities so fucking hard for most men to achieve. Our primal selves want to solve our women’s problems. Our women usually need no help in solving their problems. Usually, Mrs Russell is solving mine.
Now get happy mofos, here’s Pharell!